I have been lucky enough to be surrounded by inspiring women who modeled assertiveness skills *flawlessly*. Learning to be assertive starts with self-perception. Assertive women don’t just make their voices heard, they change the very frequency of the conversation. Assertiveness is an art, refined into a skill that balances courage and finesse.
Your integrity isn’t for negotiation, and protecting that is powerful. Those around you who feel slighted by your “no” may not care to protect your boundaries. Let ‘em go.
Effective communication is about resonance. Direct, clear and concise speech coupled with active listening limits opportunity for confusion and increases opportunity for accountability.
The way you occupy space speaks well before you do. A confident posture, direct eye contact, purposeful gestures – these are the unspoken words that script authority. Body language isn’t about intimidation, but an assertion of your presence.
If someone repeatedly ignores our boundaries, we are left with a choice to either ‘scream for our supper ‘ (i.e., desperately fight to be listened to), or accept a person for who they are and create independence from them (i.e., bounce, leave, kick rocks, make like a banana and split.)
Hoarding control shows that you lack confidence in your ability to keep it. Flexibility displays confidence in your ability to adapt to any situation. Assertive women don’t need to control everything to feel secure, they find confidence in the security within.
Assertiveness begins with a simple, profound acknowledgment: You are valuable. Your perception of your worth is the blueprint which assertive structures are built. It’s recognizing your contributions aren’t minor footnotes, but essential chapters in your narrative.
Each of these women display their assertiveness in vastly different ways. And although assertiveness may look different in each of us, and may be more present in varying situations, the purpose of assertiveness is the same:
TO ACKNOWLEDGE & HONOR YOUR WORTH
If you’re struggling with assertiveness, communication, self-esteem or other areas of confidence & self-perception, reach out to us! We can help you find the right support & guidance to boost confidence & self-esteem
of course! though we have some unconventional therapy approaches, we are rooted in evidenced based practices. Talk therapy is a major player in the therapy room! See What we Treat and Integrative Services for more information
Uur goal it to decrease stress and anxiety, so we understand that the financial commitment to therapy is something to consider! We provide OON billing for clients who decide to bill their insurance for services. A “Superbill” can be provided to you for potential reimbursement of services. To know if you have to OON benefits, you can call your insurance company and ask about the process of receiving these benefits.
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VRT is an immersive tool that helps clients to explore environments that can not be traditionally explored in therapy. Visit our VR page for more info and to watch our infomercial
we use VRT to support Exposure Therapy, a long standing traditional therapy modality to treat phobias, anxiety and stress. we send a headset directly to your home so you can access VRT from anywhere.
VRT not only helps with exposure therapy for phobias, but is great for ADHD, mindfulness, PTSD and social anxiety.
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